Applying the CSFs
The Experience of the Journey and Managing Your Journey
Freedom is not the absence of commitments, but the ability to choose and commit myself to what is best for me.
Paulo
Coelho
Thriving on the Journey – Topics & Worksheets (“Thought Catchers”)
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Worksheets (“Thought Catchers”) |
3 Core Challenges |
How the 3 Core Challenges Look to Me |
#1 Identity |
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Voices – Inner & Outer |
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4 Central Elements (significance, purpose, characteristics, values) |
Ways in Which I am Significant How My Purpose Plays Out in My Life Building on My Personal Qualities |
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10 More Elements (gender & sexual orientation, race & ethnicity, affiliations & activities, physical appearance, capabilities, culture, religion, socio-economic status, nation/region, politics) |
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4 “Identity States” |
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My Identity Puzzle |
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My Brand |
Your Brand – 3 Sets of Guiding Questions |
#2 Relationships |
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Parents |
Ways to get to the “Healthy & Connected” (Coming) |
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“Good Relationships” |
What Am I Bringing to a Relationship? Relationship Capabilities I Want to Develop (Coming) |
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Sexual Relationships |
Guiding Questions for Good Choices (Coming) |
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Endings |
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Relationship Skills |
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Relationship Web |
Persevering in Developing Relationships (Coming) People in My Web of Relationships (Coming) |
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Online Relationships |
Connecting Online – My Plan (Coming) |
#3 Competencies |
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Priorities |
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Plan |
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“Learning to Love the Plateau” |
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Support Web |
Building a Support Web (Coming) |
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Habits
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The Journey |
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3 Types of Test (letting go, discovery & mastery, “inbetweenity” |
Which Tests Am I Encountering? |
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Grow on 5 Levels (intellectual, physical, emotional, social, & spiritual) |
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It’s a Rollercoaster |
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Others on Your Journey |
People I’m Encountering on My Journey & How I’m Managing the Relationships
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Energy Traps & Sources |
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Beginning – Becoming the Author |
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As I Grow – Others’ Responses |
Managing the “Ripple Effects” of My Changes
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The Pitfalls to Manage |
Dealing with the Natural Pitfalls – How I’m Doing
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Managing the Journey |
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Face the Challenges Directly |
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Create a Vision & Heroic Code |
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Put an Action Plan in Place |
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Build a Web of Support |
Building My Support Network
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Build Capability |
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Persevere & “Hold the Course” |
How I Can Build Resilience |